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Trepidation
The house gleamed, but his heart trembled. What burden was hiding beneath the surface of a simple Suhba?
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Apr 24
Performing Love: Why Nice Guys Finish Last
Love without disciplined principles is just emotional indulgence dressed up as care.
Apr 16
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Abdul-Malik Merchant
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Performing Love: Why Nice Guys Finish Last
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February 2025
Ruminations: Race, Travel, + Ramadan
What does it mean to be a "strong Black man," rooted in faith, standing in the river of history, navigating a spiritual journey to serve others?
Feb 28
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Abdul-Malik Merchant
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Ruminations: Race, Travel, + Ramadan
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Develop People: Advice to Community Servants (Part 3)
Prophets left legacies of people, not wealth; a true servant of the community values people over programs and love over achievements.
Feb 15
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Abdul-Malik Merchant
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Develop People: Advice to Community Servants (Part 3)
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January 2025
Ya Banati 2: On Love and Marriage
Marriage is a journey of growth and worship—my second love letter to you is a reminder to love and forgive for Allah’s sake, always trusting His wisdom.
Jan 31
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Abdul-Malik Merchant
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Ya Banati 2: On Love and Marriage
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Ruminations: 2024
The patterns of this year felt divinely woven—constriction, brokenness, suhba, and hope—each trial and blessing a thread in Allah’s perfect plan.
Jan 14
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Abdul-Malik Merchant
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Ruminations: 2024
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December 2024
Maturity in the Midst of Grief: Searching for the Creek
Maturity emerges in the space where humility meets thoughtful action, turning setbacks into stepping stones to success.
Dec 25, 2024
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Abdul-Malik Merchant
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Maturity in the Midst of Grief: Searching for the Creek
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Advice to Community Servants (Part 2)
Struggling to stay consistent in your service? Learn how trust in Allah, sincerity, and embracing challenges can transform your journey and strengthen…
Dec 15, 2024
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Abdul-Malik Merchant
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Advice to Community Servants (Part 2)
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November 2024
Life After Divorce
When relationships crumble, the true test is how we rise, find meaning, and grow stronger in the face of heartbreak.
Nov 29, 2024
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Abdul-Malik Merchant
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Life After Divorce
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Divorce and Its Roots: Understanding the Three Core Causes
Rising divorce rates reveal patterns of early mistakes, unresolved issues, and changes over time. Here’s what we can learn.
Nov 20, 2024
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Abdul-Malik Merchant
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Divorce and Its Roots: Understanding the Three Core Causes
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Anger + Righteous Indignation
A heart ablaze: finding purpose where frustration once ruled. Discover the journey from restless anger to steadfast spiritual resolve.
Nov 15, 2024
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Abdul-Malik Merchant
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Anger + Righteous Indignation
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Making Excuses vs. Accountability
Reflecting on an interaction with my daughter and how accountability is imperative, despite the spiritual benefits of making excuses.
Nov 7, 2024
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Abdul-Malik Merchant
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Making Excuses vs. Accountability
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