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Raef's avatar

The "Growing Apart" cause is indeed one of the harder ones to deal with, but I believe takes a good amount of awareness from both ends to blossom post-divorce. Thank you for writing this, Allah bless you for the work you do 🤲🏼

Iamlearning's avatar

I am sure it does. I never wanted to but it happens.

Abdul-Malik Merchant's avatar

As a divorcee myself, I completely understand.

Allah bless you with contentment, happiness, and a new spouse that brings you closer to Him in this life and the next. Ameen!

Iamlearning's avatar

Thank you, I am learning more about Allah and I like it so far so thank you

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Abdul-Malik Merchant's avatar

Oh no, I’m not saying any of these are excuses; rather, just a cause. All of these things, in my opinion, are still salvageable. They just requires humility and commitment from both parties.

Unfortunately, from my experience, the bulk of divorces I’m seeing are being initiated by the men. Almost always, even with the most difficult wives, it is because they lacked wisdom to guide and manage early on in the marriage, regardless of any of these 3 categories.

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Abdul-Malik Merchant's avatar

Oof! No place is perfect, but as a community we have a lot of social issues to work on.

نسأل الله العافية و التوفيق!